What Men really Want
(And how it might drive him crazy for you.)
Have you ever been drawn to a man without understanding why?
Perhaps you've even felt a certain way about someone you'd prefer not to be attracted to. What causes this to occur? How can you fall in love if your rational mind opposes it? Such encounters offer a glimpse into the mysterious forces that fuel our sensations of romantic attraction. It's all about emotions in that secret world. emotional responses that we are not mindful of controlling.
The truth is that we do not choose to fall in love. It feels more like becoming hydrated. You don't voluntarily become thirsty. Just take note of it. And as your thirst grows stronger, it becomes more difficult to suppress.
What if I told you that all guys have a certain kind of relationship "thirst"?
A kind of thirst that he is unable to satisfy on his own. Would you like to find out what is making him so thirsty? To get to the point quickly, watch this video, which explains how to pique his desire for something he both needs and craves.
I'll also show you how to make sure you're the ONLY one he turns to for the fulfilment of this intense desire. Here's why the man in your life is unable to express to you his greatest desire for you in a relationship:... He is ashamed to speak the truth. And the reason why is that by acknowledging this desire, he really drifts further away from the end result.
Now imagine a woman who is annoyed that her husband never makes an effort to be romantic. Finally, she breaks down and expresses how she wants to be chased and romanced by him. He demands that she identify one aspect of their connection that is lacking, yet he acts as though she is being unreasonable. She then uses one for him. "Occasionally receiving flowers would be lovely. merely basic things like that.
He gives her flowers the following day.
However, this motion lacks its power. This is due to the fact that receiving flowers that you have to request doesn't feel particularly exceptional. Similar things happen to guys, but they have entirely different needs in terms of relationships.
As you can see, males are ravenous for your admiration.
But he cannot request it. Julie, I really like you, but here's what's missing in our relationship," he cannot explain. I'm not admired by you enough. It's difficult for me to envision a future with you because you seem to have more respect for other men in your life.
He isn't allowed to say that because guys think you have to merit respect. To ask for it is the equivalent of claiming to be cool in an effort to get popularity. That is not how it operates.
The Admiration Language of Body Language
He won't feel like your hero until you express your admiration to him nonverbally. In order to understand what you actually say and do, he must read between the lines. That's not that crazy, you could be saying at this point. I can see why a man would want to be admired. You need to know something vital, though, if you're thinking that.
And it's not just that males seek for approval.
It's because he can't continue to be "in love" without it.
Nothing ruins a man's attractiveness more quickly than feeling unneeded in a relationship. He desires to identify as a provider. Someone whose capacity to provide is esteemed. You see, he feels emasculated and less of a man if he doesn't feel required. And that kills his desire for romance.
The worst part, though?
You can't just express admiration for him. He must believe he has gained your respect, admiration, and trust for it to be effective. But the good news is here. Once you know how to position him for success, it's enjoyable and simple to let him earn your respect.
Just figure out a method to make him your idol.
I should point out that there is a knack to doing things in a way that makes him fall head over heels for you. However, I've seen women use this straightforward idea to wrap a man around her pinky.
You have to make him feel like a hero.
Once you do that, what happens next will astound you. You won't want things to return to as they were because he will become so devoted, so caring, and so interested in a committed, long-term relationship. The hero instinct is a compulsion to be drawn to those who make a person feel heroic. But in his romantic interactions, it's accentuated. Some concepts can truly alter your life. And one of them is for romantic relationships.
The truth is that women can rescue themselves.
especially in the modern day. But the ironic fact is as follows. Men do still require assistance. because they are genetically predisposed to seek for connections that will make them feel like providers. The one minor genetic variation between men and women makes a HUGE impact in what draws men to the feminine sex. Any woman who enables him to assume the character of a hero appeals to him. Because he instinctively craves that social role due to his inclinations.
The really wonderful part about this is this. He won't even be aware of his strong attraction to you. Because of this, you can employ this technique covertly. Unconscious attraction is sparked by it. He will undoubtedly sense a pull on his emotions. But if one of his friends asks him why he's so smitten with you, he won't be able to explain it.
The source of our feelings of attraction is a secret universe.
However, we now have the ability to observe a significant portion of that secret universe. Additionally, you have some degree of influence over it. It's not something that can only be observed by chemists, like oxytocin levels in the blood. Instead, it's something you can spot anywhere if you learn to look for it. It is a style of male and female interaction. Relationship specialists have long been aware of this, but they haven't always acknowledged it as the potent trigger that it is. a catalyst that fuels his desire for intimacy.
How can you develop passion and romance using this trigger?
The simplest method to awaken his hero instinct is to express your desires in a way that appeals to his innate desire to take care of you. His inclination to help, love, and guard. the urge to save somebody.
Your wants and needs are already present. Why not develop the ability to transform those wants into demands that arouse his sense of duty as a hero? Then allow yourself to experience the tenderness and passion he can only display after a lady arouses his hero instinct. Become the lady who understands precisely how to quench his intense, primal hunger.
References:
Alison Wood Brooks, Francesca Gino, Maurice E. Schweitzer. “Smart People Ask for (My) Advice: Seeking Advice Boosts Perceptions of Competence.” Management Science (2015): Vol. 61, No. 6
Harry's Masculinity Report 2018 https://s3.amazonaws.com/harrys-cdnx-prod/manual/Harry%27s+Masculinity+Report%2C+USA+2018.pdf
Joan F. Goodman (2009) Respect-due and respect-earned: negotiating student–teacher relationships, Ethics and Education, 4:1, 3-17, DOI: 10.1080/17449640902781356